Are you meeting someone for the first time and unsure what flower to bring? Are you wondering how to make your choice among all the floral gifts available for this occasion?
I’m here to help you.
As a florist, my job goes beyond just creating beautiful floral arrangements: I also advise my clients daily to help them choose the most suitable products for their needs.
Today, I’m going to explain how to choose your flowers for a first date, so you can make your selection with confidence.
Once you’ve decided to give flowers for your first date with someone, you can make your selection based on your intentions. While a passionate crush is typically expressed with red roses, a subtle and budding love is better represented with pastel flowers or shades of pink. If you want to use the language of flowers to convey a message or break the ice, that’s definitely possible: for example, the white Lily expresses purity of feelings, while the Peony signifies shyness. Finally, when choosing your gift, you have various options: a single flower, a small bouquet, or even preserved roses or a rose bear to surprise your partner.
Want to learn more? In the following sections, I’ll provide you with:
- A selection of flowers you can give on a first date,
- How to add meaning to your gesture with the language of flowers,
- Tips and tricks for choosing the perfect floral gift for this occasion
- Gift ideas to delight the person you’re going to meet
What Flower to Choose for a First Date?
When going on a first date, giving a flower or a bouquet can be a great way to break the ice and make a positive impression on the person you’re meeting.
In this section, I will guide you on how to choose your flowers for this occasion.
Should You Bring Flowers on a First Date?
You might be wondering if it’s a good idea to give flowers on a first date.
To avoid making mistakes, I recommend paying attention to the following points.
The Meeting Location
While some meeting spots, like a restaurant, are perfectly suited for this type of gift, others are a bit less so.
In some situations, a floral gift can indeed be somewhat cumbersome: this is especially true if you plan to go for a walk outside while it’s very hot (the flowers may wilt quickly) or if you have an activity planned together in an enclosed space that might not allow flowers (like an amusement park, etc.).
The Number of Flowers
During a first meeting, if you choose to give a bouquet that is too large (more than fifteen flowers or with a budget over $40), the person you are meeting might feel a bit awkward about the size of the gift.
Think of it more as a small gesture of thoughtfulness: receiving a huge bouquet within the first few minutes of a date might come off as over the top, and your partner might feel like you’re rushing things a bit…
What flower can you give as a gift?
To choose one or more flowers suitable for this occasion, I first recommend discussing the appropriate colors and types of flowers you can give, based on your intentions and personality.
To Express Your Romantic Love ❤️
If you want to make your intentions clear right away, such as in the case of love at first sight, you can choose red flowers, the color of love and passion.
In this case, Roses are the perfect flowers. You can pair them with Baby’s Breath to really enhance their beauty.
Don’t Show Up Empty-Handed 👐🎁
If you’re not sure whether you’re ready to commit just yet but still want to bring something to the meeting, you can choose flowers in pastel colors that are delicate.
The wildflower bouquets, which are quite trendy, are perfect for this occasion: in this case, choose flowers such as Lisianthus, Thistle, Lady’s Mantle, Waxflower, Chamomile, and so on.
In winter, you can choose a beautiful mix of Ranunculus and Anemones.
To express your zest for life and stand out 🧡
If you want your gift to reflect your excitement about this occasion, you can definitely choose a colorful bouquet.
If you want to surprise her, you could choose an exotic flower. By gifting her a Bird of Paradise or a Porcelain Rose, you’re sure to stand out!
Additionally, explaining to him how you chose the colors and flowers can be a great way to break the ice at the beginning of your meeting!
To make a sweet gesture while keeping it classic 💗
Finally, if you want to make a thoughtful gesture but don’t yet know the tastes of the person you’re going to meet, you can choose a more classic bouquet in shades of pink.
You can also choose a gradient bouquet that transitions from white to red through pink. These harmonious and feminine colors evoke tenderness, sweetness, and kindness.
🛑 I recommend avoiding white flower bouquets for a first date. Generally, these flowers are given for ceremonies (like baptisms and weddings) or during times of mourning. This might make your date feel uncomfortable.
However, you can afford to give a Rose or a Lily stem, which convey a message of purity.
Using the Language of Flowers to Convey a Message
Maybe you want to choose the flower you give to your special someone thoughtfully, adding meaning to this gift.
If this is your case, I invite you to explore the meanings of some flowers in the following sections.
- The Rose: the meanings of roses in the language of flowers vary significantly depending on the species, location, and color. Here are the main ones:
- ❤️ Red Rose: passionate love
- 💗 Pink Rose: tender love
- 🤍 White Rose: pure love
❕💛 Attention, the yellow rose is associated with infidelity… best to avoid it for a first date.
- Hyacinth: kindness, gentleness, and delicacy
- Lily of the Valley (around May 1st): brings good luck
- Peony: modesty
- Tulip: grandeur, fame. The red tulip is associated with a declaration of love.
- White Lily: purity of feelings, majesty
- Pink Carnation: a sincere declaration of love
👉 If you’re using the language of flowers, be sure to explain the meaning of your gift during your date. Many people are not aware of the hidden meanings behind flowers…
This is also a great excuse to get to know each other, discuss your expectations, and talk about your common interests.
What type of floral gift can we give for this occasion?
Now that you know how to choose flowers for a first date, it’s time to decide how you’re going to present them. Here’s a quick overview of the different options available to you.
A Wrapped Flower 🌼
The simplest solution when you want to make a small gesture is probably to give a single flower, thoughtfully chosen. Upon request, your florist will create a customized packaging for you, flat and sometimes on a colorful background, that will showcase your flower beautifully.
It’s also a great option if you want to give a unique flower to convey a message, as mentioned earlier.
Most flowers can stay out of water for a few hours; however, if it’s very hot, consider asking your florist to place the flower in a water tube so it stays hydrated and doesn’t wilt during your event.
A Little Bouquet 💐
If you want to give something a bit more than just a flower, you might consider a small simple round bouquet. As mentioned earlier in this article, I recommend avoiding large bouquets on a first date, so as not to overwhelm the person receiving them.
In hot weather, you can request that it be packaged in a water bubble to keep it from wilting. However, this will make it less convenient to carry.
If this option doesn’t appeal to you, you can also give a small bouquet of dried flowers: if your love story blossoms, your partner can cherish it as a memento of your first meeting.
An Eternal Rose 🌹
If you want to impress the person you’re meeting with a unique and trendy gift that they can cherish for years to come, I suggest you explore the idea of an eternal rose. There are several types to choose from, which I will introduce to you.
A Natural Eternal Rose Under a Dome for a Meaningful Gift 🌷
This is a preserved eternal rose that has been stabilized through a laboratory process. These roses come in a variety of colors and require no maintenance.
Interested in this gift? Check out our everlasting roses under glass, crafted with care to ensure your floral gift is a success.
A galaxy rose, for a trendy and unique gift 🌌
These aren’t real roses, but they shine like diamonds. Our galaxy roses are available in an elegant box or under a cloche.
To introduce your future partner to this unique gift, I encourage you to choose from our galaxy rose catalog.
A Bear Made of Roses 🧸
Popularized on social media, these little teddy bears are a sweet and unique way to gift flowers. Made with everlasting roses and available in a variety of colors, these cute bears make for an ideal romantic gift for a first date or for any occasion that follows…
Don’t hesitate to check out our brand new collection of pink bears to see if this gift is right for you!
Now you have all the insights you need to choose the perfect flower for your first date. I wish you just one thing: that this first meeting marks the beginning of a beautiful love story… 💖