Do you have a couples dinner planned and you’re unsure what to wear? Are you looking for simple yet stylish clothes for a date at a restaurant?
I will help you.
Whether in my work as a florist or in my personal life, I love staying updated on trends! Today, I’m going to blend my passion for fashion with what my job has taught me: how to advise people in finding something that suits them best.
In this article, I’ll help you find the perfect outfit for a romantic dinner, whether you’re a woman or a man.
First and foremost, it’s important that you feel comfortable in your clothes, even if they’re stylish, so you can truly enjoy yourself. Next, you need to tailor your outfit to the level of sophistication required for the venue of your date. If it’s a special occasion (such as an engagement or celebration), don’t hesitate to step up from your everyday attire, even if it’s just small changes like your hairstyle or accessories. You can go for a classic look with a suit or dress, but you can also embrace a bohemian style or a romantic vibe, especially for women. Lastly, pay attention to the details: cleanliness, shoes, and the overall coordination of your outfit…
Want more details? Check out this comprehensive guide to discover:
- The key points to consider when selecting your outfit
- How to choose an appropriate outfit for a simple evening with your partner, a first date, or a special occasion
- A selection of outfits for both women and men, tailored to your preferences and the type of dinner you’re attending
- Some gift ideas to present on this occasion, to delight your partner
How to Choose Your Outfit for a Romantic Dinner?
If you have a romantic dinner planned, your outfit is an important detail not to overlook. In fact, the choice of your clothing reveals a lot about who you are.
Are they clean and pressed? Do they match, follow trends, and are they expensive or not? These are some questions whose answers reflect who you are and what your principles and values are in everyday life.
➡️ Before we dive into this topic in detail, I want to remind you that there is no perfect outfit, and the best clothes will always be those that make you feel both comfortable and stylish.
However, I’ve put together this little guide to help you make your choice so you can approach this romantic dinner with confidence.
Some Questions to Consider Before Anything Else
Here’s a list of questions to help you better understand what clothing would be appropriate based on the type of meal involved.
Where is the meal taking place?
🏠 If the meal is at your place, anything goes. It’s up to you to decide whether you want to make a little extra effort compared to your usual routine or dress up in your finest outfit. If you choose the latter, be sure to communicate the dress code to your partner so they can dress accordingly!
🍽️ If your dinner is outdoors, the type of restaurant you’re going to will determine how sophisticated your outfit needs to be:
- If it’s a small family restaurant, you can make a little effort, but if you go overboard, you might come across as a bit overdressed.
- If it’s a well-known restaurant, or even a Michelin-starred establishment, don’t hesitate to wear something classy: an evening dress, a suit…
What stage is your relationship at?
If you have been in a relationship for a while and are living together, you might consider coordinating your outfits. It can give you something to share and boost your confidence.
To match your clothes, you can:
- Choose a tie and dress in the same shade
- Select a scarf or shawl that matches the color of your partner’s accessory
- Wear an outfit that is the same color as one of your companion’s items
🛑 Be careful not to dress in exactly the same way, especially when it comes to colors. It’s the small differences that add dimension and highlight the harmony of your outfit.
Do you think this meal will be the perfect opportunity for a special proposal?
If during this meal you think someone might propose to you, announce a pregnancy, or express a wish to move in together, don’t hesitate to dress accordingly by wearing a nice outfit. This is a great opportunity to buy new clothes and style your hair nicely.
👉 However, make sure to stay in line with the sophistication of the place where you plan to dine. This will help you feel at ease when the time comes.
How to Adjust Your Outfit for the Type of Occasion?
Now that you know how to identify what type of dinner it is, I’ll share some tips on how to find the perfect outfit that’s well-suited for the occasion.
For a Simple Romantic Meal
If it’s a couple’s dinner, whether at home or in a cozy restaurant, it’s best to choose an outfit that makes you feel comfortable and that your partner will appreciate.
✔️ Don’t overlook the little details, like trying out a different hairstyle or wearing new shoes. Those are the things that really make a difference!
For a First Date at a Restaurant
This romantic dinner is also your first date? If so, opt for an outfit that makes you feel confident and comfortable.
Since this is a first date, I recommend that you dress according to your personal style. It’s important for the person you’re meeting to see you as you truly are. If you try to be someone else, it will eventually show over time and could harm the growth of your new relationship.
For a Special Occasion
If this dinner is planned to celebrate a special event, such as a housewarming, an engagement, the birth of a child, or an anniversary, you can wear the same clothes or accessories that are meaningful to your relationship. For example, you might wear the same scarf or tie that you wore on your first romantic date.
💕 During the meal, feel free to explain your choice of outfit to your partner. They may not remember this particular outfit, but they will certainly be touched to know that you made that effort for this occasion.
Chic and Comfortable Outfit Ideas for Women 👩
If you’re still unsure about your clothing choices, here are some suggestions that you can either use as they are or draw inspiration from.
A Classic Yet Chic Look 👢
Both versatile and stylish, this fashion style is timeless and suits a variety of situations. To embrace it, you can choose clothing items such as:
- A tailored jacket or blazer
- Straight-leg pants
- Shoes with low heels
- A button-up shirt or blouse
- A little black or navy dress
- A classic handbag in dark leather or patent
Feel free to opt for neutral colors (white, black, gray, blue…). To add a touch of flair, you can include some small metallic accessories.
Bohemian Spirit 👗
This trendy style emphasizes loose-fitting clothing and nature-inspired elements. To achieve a bohemian look, you can wear:
- A pastel dress
- A suede jacket
- A flowy dress with floral prints
- Lightweight, loose linen pants
The colors that embody the bohemian spirit include natural leather, pastel shades, and yellow. The overall look should be natural and harmonious, steering clear of anything too flashy.
You can pair them with natural leather shoes, a variety of costume jewelry, and belts.
Comfort and Style Trend 👚
To feel good in your own skin and look energetic, there’s nothing better than adopting a casual style. For this, you can choose:
- An aviator jacket
- A pair of jeans
- A funny t-shirt
This choice is perfect for a casual evening. You might also consider adding a pair of sunglasses and a unique handbag.
100% Romantic 💗
Lastly, here are the key elements of romantic style:
- A blouse or a dress made of lace and/or featuring floral patterns
- Light-colored clothing (pink, pastel, white, cream)
- A flowy skirt or a dress
- A cardigan
The accessories that match this trend are scarves and jewelry. Also, opt for lightweight fabrics to fully embrace this trend!
Trendy Outfit Selections for Men 👨
If you’re a man, this section is for you!
Here are some outfit ideas for a romantic dinner, tailored to the mood of the evening.
For Dining at Home or in a Small, Casual Restaurant
In this context, there’s no need to overdo it. Focus on your outfit and consider wearing a well-fitted t-shirt, a blazer, and straight-leg dark jeans. If you’re not comfortable in a t-shirt, you can opt for a shirt in a color that you like.
For Dining at a Michelin-Starred Restaurant or a Special Occasion
For this type of meeting, a suit is completely appropriate. Choose one that is well-fitted in either dark gray or navy blue, as a change from the black which can be a bit dull.
👉 You can leave the tie in your closet: it’s often associated with the work environment and doesn’t really fit a romantic vibe.
If you don’t want to wear a suit, you can opt for straight-leg canvas pants along with a shirt and/or a light sweater.
Pay Attention to the Details!
Because small imperfections are often the things we notice most easily, make sure to pay attention to the little details of your outfit, including:
- Your shoes: they should be clean and polished.
- Your hair and beard: they should be clean and well-groomed.
- Your courtesy: so your partner can choose their outfit, feel free to text them the location and time of the date in advance, along with details about the dress code! You might also consider bringing a gift to give them on this occasion.
What Floral Gift to Give for This Occasion? 💐
Thanks to this article, you may have already found the outfit you plan to wear. If you want to delight your partner or celebrate a special occasion, this romantic dinner could be the perfect opportunity to give a flower gift.
On this topic, you can check out this article dedicated to flowers that you can give for a first date, which I also wrote for this blog.
To find ideas, feel free to visit our online store, where you can find:
- Tender teddy bears 🧸 made of everlasting roses, for a romantic and heartfelt gift
- Everlasting roses 🌹, to express the depth of your love to your partner and bring them joy
You’re ready to choose your outfit for your romantic dinner! May this evening be a chance to create beautiful memories together, just like your relationship…