Would you like to give flowers to your husband, a male family member, or a friend, but you’re wondering if it’s appropriate? Are you looking for flowers that can be given to a man for a special occasion or just for the joy of giving?
Look no further, we’re here to answer your questions.
As a florist, my clients often ask me about this, especially around Father’s Day. So, I’m able to provide you with an answer based on my professional experience and expertise.
These days, flowers are no longer just for women. It’s perfectly acceptable to give flowers to a man for his birthday, to celebrate an anniversary, or simply for the joy of it. To make your gift a success, choose a flower that aligns with his tastes. You can also convey a message of love, affection, or friendship by carefully selecting the color of the rose you give him. Generally, men prefer gifts that last, so opt for a flower that endures over time and that he can care for, like a flowering plant or a preserved rose.
Want to learn more? Then let’s keep reading to discover:
- If it’s appropriate to give flowers to a man
- Reasons why this gift is a great idea
- What type of flowers to give him to make him happy or to convey a message
- 3 unique and floral gift ideas for a man
Is it appropriate to give flowers to a man?
Indeed, while it seems common to give flowers as a gift to a woman, it is much less frequent to do the same for a man. However, many men have a green thumb and appreciate the beauty of nature and flowers!
A Gift Just for Women? Not Anymore!
Since ancient times, giving flowers has been a delicate way to express emotions and convey a message to someone. Back then, it was common to offer flowers to the goddess of spring and harvests in hopes of receiving her blessings.
What explains that today, flowers are primarily given as gifts to women? Throughout art and literature, women have always been linked to flowers, symbolizing delicacy and sensitivity. It is therefore only natural that giving flowers to a woman has become a way to express one’s feelings to her.
It was in the 18th century that the language of flowers emerged in France. Introduced from the Middle East by Lady Wortley Montagu, the wife of the British ambassador there, it is believed to have been created by the women of Ottoman harems.
Thanks to this language, every flower is now associated with a specific message. Men will then start to use it as a way to court women. This marks the beginning of a long tradition of seduction through flowers…
However, nowadays, attitudes have changed significantly and it is completely acceptable to give flowers to a man in the 21st century. Furthermore, if this person is appreciative of nature, art, or is passionate about gardening, you are sure to delight them with this gift.
Why Give Flowers to a Man?
Just like with a woman, there are many occasions when you can give flowers to a man, including:
◼️ To express your feelings: they can convey a message of love or friendship, and they’re also a great way to seek forgiveness with a sweet gesture.
◼️ For a birthday, Father’s Day, Valentine’s Day, or even for the holiday season
◼️ To celebrate wedding anniversaries: many anniversaries have names associated with flowers. To commemorate the occasion, feel free to gift your husband the flower that corresponds to it! Here’s a short list:
- 8 years: Poppy Anniversary
- 13 years: Lily of the Valley Anniversary
- 17 years: Rose Anniversary
- 51 years: Camellia Anniversary
- 55 years: Orchid Anniversary
- 57 years: Azalea Anniversary
◼️ For the joy of giving: what better reason to give a gift than the happiness of making a man you love smile? Whether it’s a small gesture or a more significant present, giving flowers is a sign of generosity.
What Type of Flowers Should You Give to a Man?
Now that you know it’s possible to give flowers to a man for many occasions, you just need to decide what you want to give him.
In this section, I’ll help you make your decision.
A flower that matches their tastes
Are you looking for the perfect gift? In that case, consider the interests of the person you plan to give it to.
Here are some tips that might help you:
✔️ If this man has ever given you flowers, what kind did he choose? Gifts are often picked based on the recipient’s preferences, but they also reflect the giver’s taste.
✔️ You might also want to think about his favorite colors: does he really like blue? There are roses tinted in that color as well as naturally blue-violet flowers that he might enjoy.
Blue Rose
✔️ A man who appreciates the beauty of nature will be captivated by a noble flower such as the Rose or the Lily.
Lilies
✔️ A man who is passionate about natural sciences, botany, or gardening will also appreciate receiving a unique flower, such as an exotic flower.
Anthurium
✔️ Finally, if you’re worried that the man receiving the flowers won’t know how to take care of them, opt for easy-to-care-for flowers like gerberas, roses, or carnations.
Gerbera
🛑 Flower bouquets do carry a strong feminine connotation, which may offend some men and impact their sense of masculinity. If you’re unsure, consider opting for a less feminine gift like a single flower (fresh or preserved), a floral arrangement in a planter, or a flower/plant that they can grow and care for.
4 Roses to Convey a Message to a Man
If you’re looking for a meaningful gift, consider the queen of flowers: the Rose.
Depending on the color you choose, it conveys a different message:
➡️ Red Rose 🌹
This color represents passionate love. It’s perfect for a declaration of love.
➡️ Rose rose 🌷
Symbolizing tenderness, it will express your affection with grace.
➡️ White Rose 🌼
It can express not only the purity of feelings but also regrets. You can give this flower if you have something you need to apologize for.
➡️ Rose Orange/Yellow 🌻
These vibrant colors are associated with friendship and a love for life! They are perfect for a friend or a father.
🛑 Men are very sensitive to the symbolic message behind a gift of flowers. So, be sure to clearly explain the meaning behind this gift to him.
3 Unique Flower-Themed Gift Ideas for Men
Now you know how to choose the perfect flower for a man. To wrap up this article, I’ll suggest three gift options, ranging from the most classic to the most unique, to surprise the lucky recipient.
An Eternal Rose 🌹
Do you want to surprise the recipient of your floral gift? If you’re looking for a highly symbolic gift that reflects the depth of your feelings, an everlasting rose is the perfect choice! This stabilized natural rose will maintain its vibrant color for years to come.
No matter what shade you’re looking for, you’re sure to find happiness among our selection of beautiful high-quality eternal roses.
A Modern Flower Bouquet 💐
If you decide to give a bouquet of flowers, you can absolutely have a unique creation made just for you. For a more contemporary bouquet, you might request the addition of some twisted wood in it.
The shape of the bouquet can also make a difference: why not choose a tall linear bouquet? This type of bouquet, which has a very graphic design, is especially suited for exotic flowers.
❕ If you’re giving a bouquet to a man who isn’t used to receiving flowers, he may not have a vase at home. In that case, consider having it delivered in a water bubble or with a vase so that it’s more convenient for him.
A Flowering Plant 🌺
Do you want to give flowers to a man, but cut flowers don’t appeal to you? In that case, you can give him a flowering plant. Just like roses can convey a message depending on their color, you can express the same idea by gifting a rose bush, for example.
Now that you’re confident a man can absolutely receive flowers and that there are plenty of options to make him happy, don’t hesitate to give a fantastic gift!
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